February 15, 2008

Foods I Didn't Eat

Remember that? That whole section on our blog related to foods I passed up for the good of the goal? Don't feel bad, it's only a vague memory to me too.

Now I'm starting to notice again when I wanted to splurge but didn't. Whether it's a treat like a big ol fat piece of cake (pictured below), or eating my kid's crusts, or a handful of chocolate chips, or a second helping at dinner, I seemed to have lost track of the fact that when I am losing weight I say "no." A lot. I pass things up everyday. I really hadn't realized that because I was keeping a food journal and not gaining so everything seemed pretty ok. Before I recommitted to losing this last bit of weight, I would've definitely had some cake. Not a lot. Maybe a couple of bites and I would've written in down. That makes it ok right?

Sure! Except for the fact that those bites (combine with a couple of bites of honey nut cheerios, a couple of crusts here and there) add up in more ways than one. 1) I don't feel as full so I feel justified in eating more and 2) my tastes change ever so slightly and I start wanting more carby stuff. (this is different than a craving. A big fat real craving I might partake, but just for my daily sustenance, it just plain doesn't work.)

This past week I've done great. Lots (and I mean LOTS) of begetables, more protein, and more water. I feel differently too, less worn down and more in control. AND I did lose weight this week. I'm trying to have a more well-rounded approach and am still trying to figure out the best ways to measure, tape measure, body fat, scale, clothes, etc. So our Friday weigh-in's might be a less numbers, more evaluation...we'll see.

So here's the cake I said no to this week; I tried to keep it ambiguous enough in the picture as to not make any of you leave wanting some.


So hopefully there will be more of these "foods I didn't eat" posts. Keep in mind, my intention isn't to say, "look at my amazing willpower everyone!"; the fact is, once I decided to take a picture of it and post it, it doesn't go in my mouth. It's that simple.

20 comments:

Scrumpy's Baker said...

You have way more willpower than I do! If I really want to get rid of something, it has to go in the trash with some dish soap on it. :)

katieo said...

Or into the kids and husband's mouths...

;)

Glam said...

Thanks for the fuzzy photo of the yummy treat in question. I'm bloated, crampy and grumpy and all I want is CHOCOLATE! Thank you for not making it worse!

Oh, and congrats to you for willpower, or more like brainpower: Mind Over Matter! Woohoo!

Diet Coke and Zingers said...

Thank you for bagging the cake so I couldn't see it... If I'd gotten a good enough look at it, I might have run to the kitchen and made one up. Love the blog. LOVE it.

eurydice said...

still a lot of willpower though! i think these posts are a great idea. keep them up!

Jen said...

My foods I didn't eat list is pretty short these days--I really need to get myself back on track. Thanks for the motivational post!

Swizzlepop said...

Sorry but I had to giggle at begetables.

So am I the only one bummed that I can't see the cake? I wanna see the cake. I have issues, sorry.

katieo said...

glam, 'm bloated, crampy and grumpy and all I want is CHOCOLATE!
Oh I HATE those days...and weeks. :(

diet coke and zingers, thanks! ...and your welcome. I'll have to figure out some creative ways of masking my temptations... it was just in a ziploc bag because my husband got it out of the fridge.

eurydice and jen, thanks!

swizzlepop, sorry. no "real" cake pictures, I'd have a lot more people mad at me i think, lol!

marie said...

so ambiguous that i'm wondering if indeed it's reaaaaaaaaaally cake... :P

Crabby McSlacker said...

I love it that we're all obsessed by the barely concealed cake!

In the refrigerator we have some Evil Safeway Bakery Cake (90% transfats and 90% sugar-- and yeah I know that adds up to more than 100%). It was supposed to be for Balentines Day but there's some left.

(What is it with the b/v keys?)

It's probably in danger anyway, but I'd have zero resistance if you showed the uncensored version of your cake.

Thanks for your discretion!

Amy said...

Those little "just passing by" foods always find a way in my mouth. Kids want goldfish crackers. Ten for them, four for me. Large valentine sugar cookie with frosting...staring at me. A quarter of it gets popped into my mouth, and the rest I offer to my son to eat RIGHT NOW. I feel good it was only a quarter, but I guess everything adds up. I have very little willpower when it comes to actually saying NO to a food I want, so I try just to nibble and nothing more. Oh well, I can't even imagine your willpower.

emmyjw said...

so true,I notice that I can maintain by being "good" but if I really want to lose I have to be super vigilent and say no A LOT.

Ashley said...

Your willpower far surpasses mine right now. And thank you much for not going into detail on that cake..!
I'm glad you've had such a good week. Each good week makes it easier to say "no" more often and have another great week. Keep up the great work :)

Danielle said...

You have some SERIOUS willpower! You know, I never even thought about little things that I eat (crusts, bites, etc...) It all adds up! Thanks for a good reminder!

RunnerGirl said...

I'm so glad the photo of that cake was not a detailed one, I don't need the slightest bit of temptation at this point!

Heather said...

It's all about the protein and less sugar, I'm convinced! Congrats on the successes. You rule!

Stephanie Quilao said...

"begetables"...that made me giggle. A friend's kid used to say "edgeables." so cute!

I've been breaking up with the scale and have stricken up a new affair with the tape measure. I think actually we're ready for the next level of commitment. Tape measure is less volatile as Mr. Scale.

Sherry/Shay said...

I just purchased 9 boxes of Girl Scout cookies and I've only had about 6 cookies. (This is over the total of a week). I need to be more disciplined to either a) NOT buy the cookies or b) eat NONE.

Tara said...

HI!! I've missed you oh so much! New job equals less down time which equals less SS time! Sorry!

So I know you aren't doing the "Foods you didn't eat," for any sort of accolades or anything, but I've got to give it to you. You've stayed strong for A LONG TIME. I'm so impressed with you and your will power. While I'm here eating everything I could get my hands on, you've been working your little buns off trying to stay healthy. Good job!I'm totally proud of you! You deserve a little pat on the back for the bad things you say no to, because it's just plain hard to always say no.

Mary said...

Congratulations! Hope it gets ever easier for you.